Host an event in your community

Community centres and other local venues are an ideal place for friends, family, colleagues and neighbours to get together - over dinner, lunch or a cuppa - to talk and learn about the various stages of perimenopause/menopause - the little-known facts, surprising realities, and range of potential symptoms, support and solutions. It’s a way to celebrate the many wins that come with menopause too.

On Saturday 31 July 2021, Menopause Over Martinis* made its debut as a community event in my neighbourhood: Hataitai, Wellington. The event sold out within a few weeks and was a huge success. If you’re curious, check out my post-event post on Facebook and some of the feedback from guests below.

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If you’d like to host Menopause Over Martinis* or a different kind of event to raise awareness of menopause/ruahinetanga in your community, I’d love you to hear from you.

“Menopause Over Martinis* in Hataitai was really well organised, with every detail planned with precision. The atmosphere was warm and welcoming. The quiz and table activities were wonderful. The prizes were on point and the food was fabulous!”

J, 55

“The event taught me that we’re a community willing to support each other through conversation and laughter. Never underestimate the power of conversation - sharing your own experience and listening to others is the best nourishment.”

SR, 45

“The best thing was getting the lowdown from women further on in their journey so I'm not clueless when menopause hits me!”

Hannah, 39

“It was worthwhile travelling down from Auckland for this first-ever community dinner [in Wellington]. So much fun! The community of women was outstanding. Everyone was friendly and open to sharing their experiences, which was really helpful.”

J, 55

“I loved the openness and honesty of all the women at our table, the welcome and thoughtfulness of the organisers, and the sharing that helped normalise this stage of life and empowered us all.”

Hels, 56

“The most valuable thing I learned was that joint pain can be a symptom of perimenopause. I've been in an out of rheumatologists for months! Not one has mentioned to my almost 49-year-old self that perimenopause could be a factor.”

Kath, 48

“The best thing was being able to discuss menopause etc with other women in a frank and honest way.”

Kath, 48

“The best thing was everyone there, the level of openness and cameraderie, and hearing stories and sharing my own.”

CR, 51

“The best thing about the dinner was understanding that everyone’s experience is different, however what may seem like an obscure symptom can be common.”

SR, 45